We believe that you are not surprised knowing that women feel some qualms about the future in new relationships because more likely you feel certain fears too. But those concerns of males and females can be quite different. Let’s consider those lady’s worries.
First of all you should understand that if a woman does not express hesitations, it does not mean there are no of them. Every person has fears connected with a new relationship. Conversely, every person has high hopes for it and these hopes become a ground for fears impeding communication. So we are going round in circles. Can we break the vicious circle? Of course, that is our power to prevent a misunderstanding. When you know the reason for the strange (as you think) reaction to your innocent remark or proposal, you’ll be able to save the situation by the proper detailing and attitude.
Now let’s consider several principle and frequent hesitations that a Ukrainian woman can have. You can hardly find a partner who has had no relations before your meeting. Everybody or almost everybody had a bad experience that has left an imprint on his idea of relationship with opposite sex partner. So you can assume that your lady can be afraid of a return of that unlucky pattern with her former friend. In the back of her mind she can foresee that it is going to repeat even not thinking about it on purpose. In a perfect world nobody wants to put the clock back if the baggage left behind is not the best one, but our mind does not ask us and those fears appear. You can be sure that a lady will do her best to deal with those hurting emotions but still you should know this peculiarity.
Another thing that can be even the first fear of a woman is her appearance. She wishes her man to take her as the most beautiful lady in the world that is why there is a high probability that your bride-to-be can be nervous because of her beauty and sexuality, even if there are no issues for concern. Of course, she demonstrates the confidence of her comeliness but you’d better admire her look and take of head to her avoiding any criticism. You should understand that women are subjected to pressure from outside. They are expected to be perfect: to have slim figure, be smooth faced and to correspond to the established beauty standards. She is supposed to be good-looking, forever young and active. Do you think like this expecting that from your bride-to-be? Perhaps the attention is all right but you should be gallant and supportive to the uttermost in this case.
Besides, do not forget that you are expected to be attractive as well: look after yourself and dress with care, as far as Ukrainian women make much of neatness. So the next fear is connected with frustrated expectations. Online dating allows to soon believing what one desires. That is why a woman is afraid to see a completely different man in a real life. In addition she can be satisfied with your blush of romance but she worries about what your life will be like after it fades. We all want to know our partner deeply and that is possible only after several years of living together. Still she does not want to twist her fortune with a wrong guy. Perhaps looking for her significant other she feels lonely and worries that she will never have a family, because there are so many singles regardless of their merits that is why she is not careful in her choice lowering her requirements. Try to be proactive as a man should be and drop mask if there is, be yourself, let her decide if you can be happy together. Perhaps you should insist on your offline meeting, be initiative and refuse dating endlessly. You should convince her that you accept commitment and have a good reputation of being family-oriented.